5 thoughts on “The success of a person is nothing, the success of a group of people”

  1. What is success? Success is actually a feeling. It can be said to be a positive feeling. It is a state of confidence and a sense of satisfaction after everyone reaches their ideal! In short, each of us has different definitions of success! And there is only one way to reach a successful way, that is, you have to learn what to pay for ordinary people! Some people think that there is money, houses, cars, and women, which is success. Some people think that success is what you want to do and do it well. Some people simply denied the existence of success. He believed that there was no success in the world, and only the pursuit of endlessness. There are two explanations in the dictionary: 1. Achievement, achievements, or career. 2. Get the expected results and achieve the goal. Let’s analyze the word success from a person’s perspective. First of all, success must be connected with the incident, and no incident will not succeed. So how does the event start? I have to consider who is the subject of success? In other words, who succeeded? We are now assumed that the subject of success is you. The subject is you, and the natural feeling of success is also based on you. Next, we will think of the beginning, development and end of events related to you. How did the event start? This incident is done by you, of course, because of you! So why do you do this? Is it inadvertently done or you plan to do or simply do you want to do it? Will you do what you do inadvertently make you feel successful? I do n’t, even if this matter is successful, at least it is not the kind of good feeling that can continue for a long time. To describe this kind of inadvertent thing in the words of Chinese people, that is, the feeling of walking through the shit, there are surprises but no long -term satisfaction, sorry to show off on the table. If you don’t want to do something, for some reason, you have to do it. After this is done, will you be happy? Will you have a sense of satisfaction? Do you think you are successful? I won’t, I don’t think you can. Well, it is what you want to do as this thing. If you do n’t talk about the process of doing this, you must do one thing and do not do two results. Then it is not successful without doing well. But after doing one thing, even if it is successful? If this is a trivial matter you think it’s insignificant, you want to do it because you may need him, but it is not worthy of the presence. You will have success Do you feel? Would you be excited and shouted loudly that I succeeded? I don’t think you can. So this matter must be what you want to do very much. You have a strong desire to make it. When it is made, you will have a strong sense of satisfaction and excitement. Okay, combined with the above discussion, let’s see what is success? The first is the subject of success, which is you, and then what you want to do very much, and then you do it, and then the most important point is that you get a strong sense of satisfaction. We can see that success is actually a feeling. Who feels? It is the subject of success. how do you feel? You are both happy and excited, but also have a sense of satisfaction. You are willing to tell others what you do, so that others can feel your joy. Therefore, I want to make a new definition for success: success refers to the satisfaction and excitement that people have done well. Therefore, we do things, regardless of big things, as long as you want to do what you want to do, and through your efforts, you are happy, then you succeed. Don’t think of success too far, don’t think of success too easily, success requires your efforts. Those who think that success does not exist, in fact, is actually a new goal, they will also get happiness from what they do, and they have succeeded. . I wish you success !! Is it the realization of self -idealism by society?] Our life does need to be managed. This is what I have really realized in the past two years. Foreign lectures on life planning and career planning for foreign companies. When I heard it a few years ago, I felt novel and I had such a new idea, but I forgot it after hearing it. I have thought too much in the past two years, I can think about everything, have my own independent insights, have experienced broad experience, successful success and failure have experienced a little, people’s thoughts have begun to mature. It shows its extremely important realistic value. Most of the reason why successful people succeed were because they consciously managed their lives. Of course, accidental factor is that the so -called luck always exists, but luck is unavoidable, not in the scope of our general management science research. And even if you are luck, you can use probability theory for simulation research. Obviously, it is impossible for a person and company to never learn. However, from a large probability, in terms of the inevitability of the development and change of things, from the perspective of the successful factor that people can control the control, luck is only an extra factor, and it cannot be diligently, let alone the main factor and the main factor of success and the use of it as the main factor and to take it with it. It is the foundation of success (except for gangsters and adventurers, these people are used to live as life as death). Therefore, it is obvious that we cannot rely on the reliable factor of our success. The reliable factor is mainly the comprehensive practical efforts that really guide our successful goals. Only these efforts can be accurately grasped, and under normal circumstances, it will inevitably help us approach the successful goals step by step. And if all these efforts are consciously doing, then we are actually managing our lives. Based on the experience of many great characters and combined with my own personal life experience, I feel that managing my life is not an easy or easy thing. Tolstoy said: Life is a heavy job, and I have experienced it very early. Of course, “the revolutionary people are always young,” are also right. Life is also a rare and unavailable pleasure. Because of this, the success of life cannot be divided by bitterness. Life can be bitter but successful, and life can be happy but failed. I believe that there is no such interesting and vivid example around us. Personally, I have a successful concept defined by the successful degree of success. I tend to define the success of life as the happiness of life. Happiness is more of a subjective feeling. Although it is objective, it is effective and effectively corrected or improved. Therefore, I think that a successful life is a happy life, and only a happy life can truly be called a successful life. You have no more success in real life in real life, but in my opinion This is the life of failure. To make such a definition, we have clearly denied some wrong understanding of “a rich life is a happy life”, “a relaxed life is a happy life”. The life of happiness and success is a life you realized the goal you want, and living the kind of life or life you want in your heart. This is what social psychologists often say to realize themselves. This is why many old revolutionaries and old Red Army feels so difficult in Yan’an, but the root cause of the happiest life in their lives. They pursue and slowly approach their ideals, and they are working hard for their ideals. They have almost nothing except their own struggles, but they don’t need anything else at all, they are enough. Why is this life that is not the ideal of many people now? ! It is meaningful, valuable, not floating, followed by waves. Therefore, Napoleon is happy, and Yue Fei is also happy. The two ancient people who did not be the emperor Boyi, who did not be the emperor, was happy. Wen Tianxiang was happy, and Mao Zedong was happy … so they were successful. So, great people are such a truth. How can mortals be considered a successful life? The reason is the same, realize your own energy, and live the life you really want to live. Try a garbage work as an example to illustrate. The garbage worker is objective for the typical representative of low -rise urban residents with low ability, low social status, and lack of economic capabilities. Can such people get a successful life? I personally think it is capable. Where is the key? The key to the ability is to confirm yourself. Confirm that self is the starting point for successful life management. Lao Plato said, “Life without thinking is a life that is not worth living.” But Ding said, “People cannot live like a beast, but they should pursue knowledge and virtue.” As a generation of great men in “Faust”, It is also regarded as the highest happiness of life and thinking for human beings, not to build merits for themselves, and the entire “Faust” works can be regarded as a personal or human collective pursuit history. In my opinion, the answer to the question of what is a real happy life is the fundamental impulse of the giant writing of the old song for nearly sixty years. In the previous article, we answered what is the success of a successful life. In the end, we talked about the great man to succeed. Was the mortal, such as garbage workers, also have a successful life? The answer is to have. The premise that he can have is that he can confirm his self. When it comes to ourselves, we must not talk about Mr. Freud. It was he first founded a complete self -theory, and divided the human self into the three parts: me, he and me, and the superstructure. In this way, there are three self, so people want to confirm themselves and realize themselves? This is a pure psychoanalysis problem. I am not a psychoanalysis expert, but I have my own opinion. I personally think it is this: the division of these three concepts is not wrong. They not only exist theoretically, but also exist in reality, and their division is still clear in theory and actual. One; Second, I personally think that confirming myself mainly refers to the confirmation of myself, that is, what I originally or really, and the realization of myself refers Essence Why is it like this? This is mainly because of the existence of a human society. He cannot escape from the self -over me and me in the social environment, and to achieve me independently. This reminds me of the classic example of Nietzsche. Nietzsche, as a philosopher in the era, has always been unified with him and me and super self, which has caused him to have great mental pain. Therefore, he can only travel between Paris and rural villas, orphan people, and the celebrities of the high society. In everyone, he feels his torment, and he feels that he must belong to a certain group of people in loneliness. As a result, his emotions became impermanent and extremely angry. But that is such a person, and finally confirmed the true self, me, an excellent philosopher and human ideological mentor. He knew his value. When everyone denied him, he still firmly believed in his value, and he still firmly believed in his value, and he still firmly believed in his value and and and and. Do not concessions for others’ wrong opinions and requirements. Therefore, sometimes I think that Nietzsche is painful most of the time. What he is painful is not his thoughts and me, but his thoughts and the recognition of the society that I do not get the society. But in general, Nietzsche is also extremely successful. This person has such a huge talent and courage, so that he can confirm his own value alone. The method he adopts is to melt the superego and him and me. Others are shocked and uncomfortable. Although he could not endure the misunderstanding and exclusion of society and crazy because of loneliness, he had completed his mission. He completed the reshaping of the European spirit or the European soul. The superiority becomes strong and strong. In the whole process of thinking, this lonely person will inevitably feel a burst of wisdom. I think this is his success and happiness as a philosopher. The judgment of success and happiness lies in whether he became the person he wanted to be. Nietzsche obviously became the person he wanted to be, although the society was stubborn at that time. This has led to another proposition. In essence, success has nothing to do with the evaluation of society or others. Society and others’ evaluation sometimes consistent with success, but sometimes just right. This has reiterated our earliest successful definition. Success is not the nature of social evaluation, but the self -feelings. Therefore, we can also lead to the second sub -proposition. In essence, success has nothing to do with your expectations or requirements for you or society, which is only related to your real wishes and ideals. If you happen to meet the expectations of others or society, the root cause is not because society and others expect you to do so, so you are like this; but because you sincerely expect yourself, or sincerely agree with society, others’ requirements for you Essence It is fully agreed with the expectations of society or other people, such as parents, and use this as a success, which is also one of the successful life. It is not easy for a person to truly confirm that self. We have many people who live when they are old, and we do n’t know or cannot live according to our inner desires. Life seems to be a dream. Is this so that we gave up their rights to ourselves, like the Chinese saying “to make a big official”? I won’t see it. In fact, in any condition, people are not always in a passive position and are about to be influenced by society. With the advancement of the times, people have a larger choice and free space for their lives. Grasp your own life. This provides a good social foundation for confirmation of self and realization. It is a famous example of humble and successful births in slave society, Chinese and foreign history. We return to a typical example of the garbage worker. How can garbage workers get happiness? This is because the identity or positioning of the garbage worker is just a super -ego and his memmer who is a complicated and multi -faceted person who is engaged in the cleaner of garbage cleaning. Essence This person may still be an artist, scientist or something else, this person is still the parents of his son or other people, etc. The garbage worker must only see one side of his complex life. Make a comprehensive error. In the same way, farmers may not be unhappy or unsuccessful. The key is whether they can correctly confirm themselves. When it comes to confirming ourselves, we naturally ask how to confirm ourselves. Help people confirm that self is the core content and fundamental achievement of Western successful studies. Unfortunately, successfully studying the error of the acquisition and accumulation of success in success. If successful definition is correctly realized in various ways, then successful learning is definitely a very important, necessary and beneficial life knowledge. How to confirm that myself is indeed a complicated problem. I plan to do a deeper and detailed research after completing this small series of essays.

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